I used to think being highly attuned to other people made me good at relationships and in many ways, it did. It also made it very easy to leave myself out of the relationship. I could understand why someone behaved the way they did while barely registering its impact on me. I could anticipate someone…

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n Many years ago, a client told me I had quiet power. At the time, I didn’t realize she was describing a form of quiet leadership. I didn’t quite know what to make of it so I didn’t immediately embrace it as a compliment. In a world that values confidence, strength, and loud authority, people…

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